As mentioned in the previous post, I partially learned about the birds and the bees from a set of books my mother gave me after being unwilling (embarrassed?) to answer a legitimate question about sperm and eggs.
The Life Cycle Library for Young People is a set of four books whose “Note to Readers” includes:
The story told on the following pages is one of the most fascinating and important ones in the life of every human being. Doctors … are still trying to discover the details of the process by which a tiny cell no larger than a speck of dust grows to be a growing, eating, crying, laughing, loving baby.
It was published in 1969 by The Parent and Child Institute of Chicago.
As I mentioned in that other post, I was not ready to read a set of books about sex. I didn’t open them until one afternoon when my friend, Cindy, was over. I doubt we read the glossary that talked about such topics as “going steady” or “sophistication.”
We probably didn’t think the drawings were dated, since they were what we saw in newspapers and magazines every day.
No, I remember we skipped to Book 3, page 133 and read the section on “Sexual Intercourse” which begins:
The most intimate way for a husband and wife to express their love is through sexual intercourse. Sexual intercourse is the act which enables the male sperm and female egg to unite to begin the life of a new human being. The primary purpose of sexual intercourse for all other living things is reproduction of the species. For a husband and wife it is also an emotional and physical expression of love.
It goes on to discuss foreplay, erogenous zones, arousal and orgasm ((even the woman’s!)), then discusses conception.
I’m pretty sure I only ever read that section of the books and maybe the parts about childbirth.
Really, it is not surprising I equated sex with conception after all, is it?